He won’t take me back when I come around
Says he’s sorry then he pulls me out
I got a big chain around my neck
And I’m broken down like a train wreck
Well it’s over I know it but I can’t let go
I was an instant fan when I heard this song. I spent some time figuring out who the hell this lady was. Her vocals and the song really impressed me. The track is so down to earth and real, with the music being as tight as you can get. It came off her breakthrough album, Car Wheels on a Gravel Road. Steve Earle played guitar on the album and helped produce it. I thought this song was a big hit because it was played a lot in Nashville when it was released. When she goes into the lyrics at the top, He won’t take me back when I come around, her voice really kicks in.
The album was produced by Steve Earle and Ray Kennedy. Williams wrote every song on the album except this one. Randy Weeks wrote Can’t Let Go and first recorded it with his band, The Lonesome Strangers, in the late 1980s. The song had a bluesy, rootsy feel but didn’t gain much recognition then. Williams first heard the song performed by Randy Weeks at the Palomino Club in Los Angeles and asked him if she could work it into her own style.
Can’t Let Go won Best Female Rock Vocal Performance. I never really liked awards for things like this…but she deserved this one. The song didn’t chart (Life is not fair), but the album peaked at #65 in the Billboard 200 and #14 in Canadian RPM Country Albums.
Robert Plant and Alison Krauss covered the song on their album Raise the Roof, and their version also received praise. Personally, I like the Williams version the best. It’s hard to beat her vocals. I tried to find a live version, but none of them has the intensity of the studio track, which is odd.
Lucinda Williams: “I was playing Steve Earle’s dobro, which had a really wide neck, and my fingers kinda slipped on it. But the track was so brilliant that everyone went, No, no, it’s great! I agonized over it for weeks and weeks, and they all kept saying, It’s great. But see, there’ve been other things where I’ve gone in and said, ‘I think we should redo this track because it’s not in the pocket or it’s too fast
Can’t Let Go
Told my baby one more time
Don’t make me sit all alone and cry
Well it’s over I know it but I can’t let go
I’m like a fish out of water
A cat in a tree
You don’t even want to talk to me
Well it’s over I know it but I can’t let go
He won’t take me back when I come around
Says he’s sorry then he pulls me out
I got a big chain around my neck
And I’m broken down like a train wreck
Well it’s over I know it but I can’t let go
See I got a candle and it burns so bright
In my window every night
Well it’s over I know but I can’t let go
You don’t like to see me standing around
Feel like I been shot and didn’t fall down
Well it’s over I know it but I can’t let go
He won’t take me back when I come around
Says he’s sorry then he pulls me out
I got a big chain around my neck
And I’m broken down like a train wreck
Well it’s over I know it but I can’t let go
Turn off trouble like you turn off a light
Went off and left me it just ain’t right
Well it’s over I know it but I can’t let go
Round every corner something I see
Bring me right back how it used to be
Well it’s over I know it but I can’t let go
He won’t take me back when I come around
Says he’s sorry then he pulls me out
I got a big chain around my neck
And I’m broken down like a train wreck
Well it’s over I know it but I can’t let go
He won’t take me back when I come around
Says he’s sorry then he pulls me out
I got a big chain around my neck
And I’m broken down like a train wreck
Well it’s over I know it but I can’t let go
It’s over I know it but I can’t let go
It’s over I know it but I can’t let go
It’s over I know it but I can’t let go

This is a great song Max off of an amazing album. Despite winning a few Grammys, it’s true she has flown under the radar. Both she and Steve Earle have a pretty big following here in Canada. I have talked about her several times on past posts so I shan’t drone on.
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You can always drone on Randy….when I heard this one…it didn’t have to grow on me…I liked it insantly. I thought at the time it had to be a huge hit.
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She’s as authentic as they come and such a great songwriter. Her self titled album was so good and she does some killer covers as well.
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I’ve never checked her debut out…I will.
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She’s certainly memorable if anything else…lol.
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Saw her live, amazing!
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Beth I’m jealous…her voice is just fantastic!
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My friend took me, she was new to me and her powerful voice blew me away
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A lovely song and much better that the one the Grateful Dead did with the same title.
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I’ll have to check that one out.
Speaking of the Dead…Jim I’ve been in a Americana kick…tomorrow I have a female artist who was a fan and mentions that she is a “deadhead” …good song.
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I will surely make time to read and listen to your post, Max.
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Good gritty sound. I know her name but not really her music. Seems like she might fit in with Steve Earle…that kind of redneck country infused with rock.
Didn’t see your posts come up on my reader today, will have to try and figure why not. Always something with WP!
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Oh geez…I had that problem yesterday with that movie post. So neither one of them did?
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Good stuff Max. The album got my attention when it came out. Forgot about the Earle connection. She puts out solid tunes. Seems to me I heard she had some health problems. Hope she recouped.
I picked up an album a long time ago called ‘A Town South Of Bakersfield”. Various artist at the Palomino when they were just getting rolling. Lucinda, Yokum and the like. I played it to death.
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This got to me as soon as I heard it in the 90s. Down here it was played like a top 10 song…which was great to hear it so much.
Yea I think she is still recouping but doing well from what I read.
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A great song, from a fantastic album that I found quite by chance. I was in the record shop near work one lunchtime and saw this CD in the remainders bin. I looked at the sleeve, saw who was involved with it, and paid a pittance for it. One of the best decisions I’ve ever made when buying a record!
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It is a great album Clive. This song was my introduction to her in 98 or so…yea you did very well with that purchase. Not a bad cut on the album.
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The instant Right In Time started playing I knew I was onto a winner 😊
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caught her live at the Edmonton Folk Festival years back….was a perfect fit here at one of the side stage sessions..
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I would love to see her. I read she had a stroke a few years ago but she is getting over it.
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I always confuse her with Victoria William, a fan of both, and Eliza Gilkyson..
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I’ve heard of Victoria but not of Eliza…
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She’s a badass. I’ve been a fan for years. A great song from a fantastic album.
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Your first sentence pretty much sums it up.
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From the moment I saw Lucinda Williams open for Bonnie Raitt in Philly a few years ago, I dug her. Not only do I find “Car Wheels on a Gravel Road” is a brilliant title, but it’s probably also my favorite Williams album overall.
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It is my favorite album by her hands-down. I agree the title makes you want to check it regardless of what it is.
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There’s just a cool image to this title. Each time I read it, I can literally hear the noise of gravel when a car is going over it!
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For me, this album is her masterpiece . Every track is great, but “Drunken Angel” goes that little bit higher for me.
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I like that one as well…yes this album is her best to me.
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Yes, great rhythm, great vocals, it all blends in real well, it fair belts along- nothing to not like at all.
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Excellent
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She’s really good, gritty sound great songs. Those Three Days from World Without Tears is another favourite.
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