Good morning to everyone on this fine Sunday morning! This was a song that I heard on my mom’s country stations along with the AM pop stations that my sister listened to. It crossed genres and was a massive hit.
It peaked at #1 on the Billboard Country Charts and Canada’s Country Charts, #16 on the Billboard 100, and #19 on Canada’s RPM Charts in 1973.
Kristofferson is an incredible songwriter but he gave up a lot to be one. He is very intelligent and he was a Rhodes Scholar at Oxford University.
Kristofferson came from a military family. Both of his grandfathers were military men, his dad was a general in the Air Force, and his brother was in the Navy. Kris himself had made a name for himself in the armed forces, achieving the rank of captain and being offered a teaching position at West Point.
Instead, he moved to Nashville and ended up working odd jobs to support his disabled son while trying to break into the music business. When his mother found out about the music business she wrote a letter to him that he was an embarrassment to the family and he was disowned. Someone showed the letter to Johnny Cash, who believed in Kristofferson, and Cash told him ‘Always nice to get a letter from home, isn’t it, Kris?’
I feel lazy doing this but Kristofferson tells the story of the song better than I can. He went to church with country music artist Connie Smith and this happened.
Kris Kristofferson: “The night before we’d been down in Cookeville with a bunch of people, doing a benefit for Dottie West’s High School band or something and then Connie took me over to church the next day to Jimmie Snow’s church. And I had a profound religious experience during the session, something that never had happened to me before. And ‘Why Me’ came out of it.
Everybody was kneeling down and Jimmie said something like if anybody’s lost, please raise their hand. And I was kneeling there. I don’t go to church a lot and the notion of raising my hand was out of the question and I thought, ‘I can’t imagine who’s doing this.’ And all of a sudden I felt my hand going up and I was hoping nobody else was looking because everybody had their head bent over praying.
And then he said, ‘If anybody is ready to accept Jesus, come down to the front of the church.’ I thought that would never happen and I found myself getting up and walking down with all these people and going down there. And I don’t really know what he said to me. He said something to me like, ‘Are you ready to accept Jesus Christ in your life?’ And I said: ‘I don’t know.’ I didn’t know what I was doing there. And he put me down, said, ‘Kneel down here.’ I can’t even remember what he was saying but, whatever it was, was such a release for me that I found myself weeping in public and I felt this forgiveness that I didn’t know I even needed.”
Why Me
Why me Lord, what have I ever done
To deserve even one
Of the pleasures I’ve known
Tell me Lord, what did I ever do
That was worth loving You
Or the kindness You’ve shown
Lord help me Jesus, I’ve wasted it
So help me Jesus, I know what I am
Now that I know that I’ve needed you
So Help me Jesus, my soul’s in Your hand
Tell me Lord, if you think there’s a way
I can try to repay
All I’ve taken from You
Maybe Lord, I can show someone else
What I’ve been through myself
On my way back to You
Lord, help me Jesus, I’ve wasted it
So Help me Jesus, I know what I am
Now that I know that I’ve needed you
So help me Jesus, my soul’s in Your hand
Lord, help me Jesus, I’ve wasted it
So Help me Jesus, I know what I am
Now that I know that I’ve needed you
So help me Jesus, my soul’s in Your hand
Jesus, my soul’s in Your hand

What a beautiful song ! And what a great artist ! I didn’t know Kris was a former officer.
Many thanx for this share.
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I didn’t know he was a Rhodes Scholar. Thank you.
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Good post! Learned some things about Kris in it. I don’t remember this one but it’s a good pick for a Sunday morning.
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I thought it fit…I would have never guessed he was a Rhodes Scholar.
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This song has such a painful story and I feel that I was much more of an embarrassment to my family for the things that I had done, like crashing their cars and getting arrested, but my family always loved me.
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Thats what good families do Jim…we all mess up. My dad was the “black sheep” of the family but they loved him…joked with him but loved him.
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I’ve never heard this before, it’s kind of endearingly sincere.
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Wow! This back story and the song are incredibly powerful, even if you’re not a religious person. My Kris Kristofferson light bulb finally came on a few years ago when I heard “Sunday Mornin’ Comin’ Down”.
BTW, that song has an incredible back story as well, including Kristofferson flying and landing a helicopter in Johnny Cash’s front yard with a tape of the song, which he wanted Cash to record. The Man in Black did, and so did many others.
If you’re curious, I did a related post about the song and March 2020:
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The story is almost as good as the song…like on your post!
These are the kind of stories I love to hear about.
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Maybe his best song next to Sunday Morning Coming Down. I bought this album twenty years ago at an estate sale, paid a buck for it. Not long ago, I ran across it in my collection, so I cleaned the vinyl, added a new plastic cover sleeve and then gave it a spin. This song is on it as well as many other great ones. It’s clear that Kris had recently given his life to Jesus from the songs he wrote for this album. If you own it, keep it close, it’s not in print anymore.
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Unfortunately I don’t own it… it sounds like he feels it and he is geniune… not forced.
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This is one that- Gawd forgive me- I put in the Sunday morning Hangover basket- it fits as a ‘never again’ song, perhap[s after a long boozy Saturday night. Kris is a top top top songwriter.
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Is it just coincidence that he wrote both this and “Sunday Morning Coming Down”?
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I think not! ‘ My cleanest dirty shirt’ is a zinger of a line, he is poetical at his best.
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Another divinely inspired tune. Kris definitely had the God connection.
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Ah man I just laughed for a while at that comment…”never again” I’ve been there.
Yes he is.
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Ah, those ‘never again’ times. If only I could remember them…
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It’s definitely a hymn that could be sung in any church. I’ve sung this in the depths of despair before and it helped. We are, all of us, unworthy wretches, and it is grace that shields and protects us to where we go on. This song is divinely inspired. Think of Kris, such a talented individual, being so moved to get real with God. Reminds me of some of Eric Clapton’s “come to Jesus” songs.
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Yes it is a special song…totally genuine.
I’ve said this in the comments…but never did I think Kris was a stupid guy…but a Rhodes Scholar??? That is impressive but sad about his family.
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Families are who we are born to, and friends are the families we choose. A hard-learned lesson that wastes a lot of time. Maybe in my next life I’ll remember it.
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Yep! We have been through this discussion before with our own experiences.
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Even if you don’t !BelievE! it has a strength that helps.
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Kris is good pals with Mr. Ruch’s homeboys Blue Rodeo.
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Oh cool! Thanks Deke.
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