Back when I was dating…Whenever I broke up with a girl…I would drag the Temptation’s greatest hits out. I would play them for at least two weeks and wallow in self-pity…just a phase I had to go through. After that, I was ready for the next one.
In the mid-eighties, they came to Nashville when the theme park Opryland was still open. They had a theater inside the part but it was sold out. No problem…I had a friend who worked there and we borrowed his sister’s work ID that worked there also. All you had to do was flash the card really quickly so they never saw that I wasn’t a Sarah. He took me the back way and we snuck into the theater and saw the Temptations. I’m not proud of it…but I did get to see the Temptations. It was the only concert that I never got a ticket stub from.
The song was off on their album Puzzle People. which peaked at #5 on the Billboard Album Charts, #1 on the R&B Charts, #8 in Canada, and #20 in the UK in 1969. The Punk Panther reviewed this and some of their other albums. On this one, he said: First off I Can’t Get Next To You has a super intro in the opening door and “wait a minute” vocal before it kicks into a magnificent piece of lively, funky, punchy Motown pop.
The song was written by Barrett Strong and Norman Whitfield. They also wrote Cloud Nine for the group. I like how all 5 Temptations trade verses on this song…everyone got a turn. I also like the party atmosphere of the song.
The song peaked at #1 on the Billboard 100, #1 on the Billboard R&B Charts, #11 in Canada, and #13 in the UK in 1969. It knocked off “Sugar, Sugar” by the Archies and was replaced by “Suspicious Minds” by Elvis Presley.
There have been numerous covers of the song. Other versions include those by The Osmonds, Al Green, Savoy Brown, The Jess Roden Band, Annie Lennox, Toto, and David Cassidy.
I Can’t Get Next To You
Hold it, everybody
Hold it, hold it, listen
I can turn the gray sky blue
I can make it rain whenever I want it to
Oh, I can build a castle from a single grain of sand
I can make a ship sail, huh, on dry land
But my life is incomplete and I’m so blue
‘Cause I can’t get next to you (I can’t get next to you, babe)
Next to you (I can’t get next to you)
I just can’t get next you (I can’t get next to you, babe)
(I can’t get next to you)
I can fly like a bird in the sky
Hey, and I can buy anything that money can buy
Oh, I can turn a river into a raging fire
I can live forever if I so desire
Unimportant are all the things I can do
‘Cause I can’t get next to you (I can’t get next to you, babe)
No matter what I do (I can’t get next to you)
Uh-yah
Ooh
Ooh
Chicka boom, chicka boom
Chicka boom, boom, boom
I can turn back the hands of time, you better believe I can
I can make the seasons change just by waving my hand
Oh, I can change anything from old to new
The things I want to do the most, I’m unable to do
Unhappy am I with all the powers I possess
‘Cause, girl, you’re the key to my happiness
And I, oh I can’t get next to you
Girl, you’re blowing my mind
‘Cause I can’t get (next to you)
Can’t you see these tears I’m crying?
I can’t get (next to you)
Girl, it’s you that I need
I gotta get (next to you)
Can’t you see these tears I’m crying?
I can’t get (next to you)
I, I, I, I, I can’t get (next to you)
I, I, I, I, I can’t get, now (next to you)
Girl, you’re blowing my mind
‘Cause I can’t get…

As you said, I love how the lead vocal moves around. It’s not just one lead singer with window dressing. They had a great string of hits. When we heard the first notes of “My Girl” at high school dances, we were quickly looking for someone to ask to slow dance. “Cloud Nine” was the topic of an essay question on an exam in the course “Black Music and American Cultural History” (as well as a prior post from you). “Papa was a Rolling Stone”, “Ball of Confusion” – great songs with something to say.
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They did give a great variety of songs. I did like their late sixties and early seventies commentary songs…my favorite by them for some reason is I Wish It Would Rain.
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David Ruffin’s lead vocal on I Wish It Would Rain is God-given. “Difficult” or not, that guy could sing.
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I agree totally. Sometims difficult is worth it…and in this case it was. Ruffin and Kendricks are the two I remember the most.
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Paul Williams was a most underrated member. He had a great voice. In fact they all did.
Thanks for the mention in the review Max!
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I am thinking that this song may not be about attraction, but the opposite of that, like if the girl never took showers, he wouldn’t be able to get next to her.
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Well that would be one way…it’s like that Police song…”Don’t Stand So Close to Me” which a deordorant company wanted to use but Sting thankfully refused it.
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Enough to make Doves cry?
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literally snorted!
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I always wondered what caused that.
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so the ‘temptations’ were too great not to sneak in and see a show, eh? Good of your friend to set it up for you! Certainly a great group through and through and as you say, a good part of their magic is that they all could sing and would get to do so.
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I guess you could say he was not too proud to beg…
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You guys are killing me lol.
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He only did it to “keep up with the Joneses”…..
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lol perfect! Yep it was too big of one. He led me through a maze of paths…and around Roy Acuff’s place he had on the grounds…it was worth the risk lol.
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But when he got in he was on “cloud nine”…
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but the maze was a “ball of confusion”….
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but it was just his imagination running away…
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So many great songs and like the Drifters they were able to thrive with several leads over the years. Some of my favourite songs are from this group.
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That is me also…I like so many of them. I do remember listening mostly when I broke up with some one or was ditched myself.
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You should be VERY proud of your ingenuity!
Temptations are one of those bands that everyone likes, no matter what their preferred genre of music, right? Like Abba. I mean, I don’t have any of their records, but every time I hear them, I make a mental note to at least buy a compilation CD for my collection.
(Just done it again. 😉 )
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“To this day, if I had to choose one album that was the most extraordinary in terms of the craft, the arrangements, the production and the performances, it would be a greatest hits of The Temptations’. They were just a remarkable group.” Steve Van Zandt
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They were my soundtrack for breakups…I Wish it Would Rain, I Can’t Get Next To You, I Know (I’m Losing You), ‘I Could Never Love Another (After Loving You) and the list goes on.
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Don’t Look Back, Ain’t Too Proud To Beg and Since I’ve Lost You are favourites of mine.
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They are great…and like you said…it was one of the best greatest hits I’ve ever had.
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Tell the truth now: when you’d try to sing along with this, did you try and do the voices? I could never get as high as Eddie Kendricks, but that doesn’t mean I didn’t try. I loved The Temps and The Tops…
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Motown just starting to change it up a bit with the vocal changes.
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It worked in this one…that is for sure.
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little max had a break-up album!– awwww, this made my day! and those sideburns on sullivan (did not make my day). 🙂
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LOL…yes I did…most of those greatest hit songs fit the situation! For the dumped… or the dumpee.
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This was such a cool track! I loved how each of them would sing a line. One of my favorite Motown cuts!!
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The first time I remember hearing this song was in the movie Hope Floats (1998). For some reason, I have no recollection of ever hearing it prior to that.
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I’ve seen that movie…. I had their greatest hits and wore it out…that is the reason I know it so well. The song that gets me the most is I Wish It Would Rain.
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Just went out to listen to “I Wish It Would Rain.” Another good one by them.
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There were several songs in there that made me seek out the soundtrack. One was Matraca Berg’s ‘Back When We Were Beautiful’. For some reason, I don’t remember I Wish It Would Rain. I guess I need to watch the movie again. 🙂
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Oh…I’m not sure that one is in there…I meant…it was my favorite song by them.
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Oh okay, that makes more sense. I didn’t think I would have forgotten a scene like that.
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The Temptations are great and the group with the best multi-part harmony vocals I can think of. Glad you got to see them in the mid-80s, Max. If I see this correctly, at the time, they still had two founding members, Otis Williams and Melvin Franklin. Franklin passed away in 1995.
I saw The Temptations twice, in the late ’90s at the Apollo in New York City with Earth, Wind & Fire, and in November 2021, together with The Four Tops. Otis Williams was still around for both shows. They were incredible! 🙂
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That clip is so cool…I’m glad the name is still alive and they are delivering those great songs out to everyone.
Yes I owe them a price of a ticket!
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I also loved their old school delivery with the synchronized moves. Otis Williams who had turned 80 a few months prior to the gig was still brining it – just amazing!
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Yes…I’m so glad they didn’t try to “modernize”… they were so classy.
80…wow…
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You should have taken a girl to the show broke up with here there and wallow in self pity for there 90 minute set instead of doing that for 2 weeks at home!
Just saying!
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Yes! Instead of moaning in my car with my casette players…I could have moaned with the real band! Like ripping a band aid off.
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hahahahaha….
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I also like the way they revolved the lead vocals for the lines. It’s an expertly crafted piece of solid gold. They make it look easy! Ed Sullivan looks like a midget carp compared to those tall handsome men.
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Sorry…I went to the gym…
Yea they make it look easy but it’s not…yea Sullivan was one weird looking guy…I have to remember midget carp lol.
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Since when did you start going to the gym?? Sullivan doesn’t look great when alone, but next to them he looks way way worse lol
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Oh…Zach and I started to go there a couple of weeks ago. I go there and do my 7000 steps on a treadmill…I like it better than walking around the building. In the past years I’ve had to stop walking in the winter…now…it’s open.
I’m also looking for a treadmill for home.
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Aha, ok. I also owe you an email.
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p.s. good thing your present and ex- girlfriends didn’t talk with each other. If she saw you pulling that album out she would know the writing was on the wall. lmao
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lol…yea that would be the death knell! Most of the time it was me not them lol.
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Are you saying you gave them the boot more?
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NO…when I got the boot…I would go in my car and sigh with the Temptations on cassette.
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Have always loved this song, which has one of the best intros ever.
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That music the power the lift where has it all gone to bring it all back
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Thanks for reading.
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This is a classic.
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classic funk, I missed this at the time but discovered it in the mid 70’s, quite liked it, and as the years have passed I liked it more and more. Love it these days!
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