After I found out about this band in 2000, I had to know more. This song would rank high on the list of my favorite songs of all time. When Olson and Louris lock in on “Why don’t you stay behind? So blue.” they hit that sweet spot that gives me chills. This is the kind of sadness you can hum along to. To me, they are a modern version of Big Star in many ways. They never could buy a hit, but released some excellent music.
The Jayhawks are an American alternative country and country rock band that emerged from the Minneapolis–Saint Paul music scene in the mid-80s. Minneapolis had a strong scene for bands in the 1980s. Gary Louris and Mark Olson built the early band around harmony singing, country roots, and the spirit of the Flying Burrito Brothers, which was not exactly the fashionable choice in a town dominated by Hüsker Dü, the Replacements, and Prince. The Jayhawks went more for warmth and melody instead of loudness. They have a little of The Flying Burrito Brothers mixed with Big Star in them.
Olson eventually left the band to focus on family and a quieter life, leaving Louris to carry on with the Jayhawks. Still, whenever the two reunited, even briefly, the chemistry returned. Their 2008 duo album (Ready For The Flood) and subsequent tours proved the bond still worked.
The song was on the album Tomorrow the Green Grass, an album many fans still consider their masterpiece. They recorded the album between Los Angeles and Nashville, a setup that gave it an open feel. Producer George Drakoulias understood that the Jayhawks’ feel wasn’t in piling on big sounds, it was in letting the songs breathe…and breathe they did. This song was written by Mark Olson and Gary Louris.
The album peaked at #92 on the Billboard Album Charts in 1995. The song peaked at #33 in Canada. They recently backed Ray Davies on his albums Americana and Our Country – Americana Act II. Their 2016 album, Paging Mr. Proust, was produced by Peter Buck of REM.
They combine country, folk, rock, and pop with good harmonies.
Gary Lourist: Mark was tired of the grind of playing the game, going to the radio stations and being a low- to mid-level success. I think it just wore him out. He was always frustrated by all the waiting. The Jayhawks made just seven records in 20 years, so there was a lot of it. The Creekdippers did it very organically and made lots of records. But the main thing was that he wanted to be with his wife.
Gary Lourist: What brought Mark and me back together? It started way back with The Rookie, a mediocre Dennis Quaid movie about an older pitcher who makes the big leagues. The producer or the director was a Jayhawks fan, and they wanted a new Olson/Louris song. Olson’s manager called my manager, and the next thing you know, I’m driving out to Joshua Tree. We talked through our old issues. We wrote a couple of songs that day. They didn’t make it in the movie, but it got us thinking that we still really had something when we got together. So we started doing some tours, but we didn’t have any new material, so that lead us to Ready For The Flood, and that led us to the new Jayhawks record.
Blue
Where have all my friends gone?
They’ve all disappeared.
Turned around maybe one day, you’re all that was there.
Stood by on believing, stood by on my own.
Always thought I was someone, turned out I was wrong.
And you brought me through and you made me feel so blue,
Why don’t you stay behind?
So blue. Why don’t you stop, and look at what’s going down.
If I had an old woman she’d never sell me a lie
It’s hard to sing with someone who won’t sing with you.
Give all of my mercy, give all of my heart.
Never thought that I’d miss you, that I’d miss you so much.
And you brought me through and you made me feel so blue.
Why don’t you stay behind?
So blue.
Why don’t you stop and look at what’s going down.
All my life (staying while) I’m waiting for (staying while)
Someone I could (waiting around) show the door
(now that I’m blue) but nothing seems to change (that I’m blue from now on)
You come back that month so blue.
Why don’t you stay behind?
So blue.
Why don’t you, why don’t you stay behind?
So blue.
Why don’t you, why don’t you stay behind?
So blue
Why don’t you stop and look at what’s down

Very cool! 😎
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excellent song from what really seems to be an under-rated band. As you point out they have some good connections in the music world!
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Yea this one is one of my favorite songs period…I mean it’s really high on the list. The loose harmonies are superb…and I love when their voices descend into a guitar lick
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there’s a radio station up here called CKUA…and is where I first heard the Jayhawks….and was introduced to a lot of things like this first back when in senior highschool when all my friends were listening to Kiss and Peter Frampton……it’s funny, I’ll play something like Blue for friends, and they’ll say they don’t make great music like this now….um, they do, there’s so much out there…
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Oh yes I agree…I’ve listened to a lot of other “alt” bands out there now that do this kind of music…and do it well! It’s a shame you have to look for it…but if you do you will be rewarded.
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my wife thanks you by the way..I went from Big Country to celtic this morning, got my guitar out and am trying to keep up to those fiddles!!!!
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I’m here to please! I do that as well…break my guitar out when I have rockabilly or something on.
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I think you have posted Blue, before. Sounds familiar. The first video just happened to be on the old Jon Stewart Show. I just fell down a rabbit hole about Stewart’s second show…The Nightly Show? Where Marilyn Manson burned the stage on the last episode.
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No, not by itself but I’ve mentioned it before and had the song on a post covering The Jayhawks before…I think I teamed it up with another song as well.
oh yes…I remember that.
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Yep, there is that kinship with Big Star in the structures and fluid harmonies and guitars.
I guess Ol’ Ray knows a good backing/back up band when he hears one too.
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Yes he does…and this band does fit him.
The late 80s and 90s spawned some great bands like this…them and Wilco and others.
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Good cut good album good band. Distinct sound with lots of great influences.
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Everly Brothers level harmonizing and the song has soul. I can see why it is one of your favorites.
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Thanks for listening Lisa…I just love it. I’ll be over tonight Lisa to your site.
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You’re welcome, Max 🙂
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First song of theirs I was aware of was “Waiting For The Sun”. Then back when my local grocery store had a music section, I bought Tomorrow The Green Grass on CD there. Great album. I just think they have an incredible sense of melody. Good song.
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They really do…this one and “I’m Gonna Make You Love Me” are the two songs that turned me on to them.
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Agree – this is an amazing song! Merry Christmas my friend!
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Merry Christmas Mike to you and your family! I’ll be going through the same as you…my son won’t be at home until the 31st…
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